Friday, March 29, 2013

What Is your Life Verse?

In a world that is full of passwords and technological gadgets, you may think I am referring to some secret code. I have many of these gadgets in my home and have about five or six different passwords currently, but I can only remember two of them. Every couple of months, I need to remember a new password to go with my new upgraded phone and then I have trouble entering my new password, because I can only remember my old password. If you are one of those who have a photographic memory, I applaud you. I however, have trouble remembering my own name at times.
No,I am not asking you for a secret code. I am asking if God has given you a verse from the bible that applies to you personally. I have a few life verses that God has given me during the course of my life, Philippians 4:13,"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me", and Philippians 4:6-9,"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving,let your requests be made known to God;and the peace of God, that surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely,whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you." I refer to these two verses quite frequently, because I am a control freak, and I worry. As a stay at home mom of two boys, I am always reciting these verses over and over to myself, especially when my youngest decides to run into the kitchen and slips and almost hits the sharp corner of the counter, or my oldest decides to ask me for the umpteenth time, what our plans are for the day. I have verses posted all around my house to remind me to stop and cool my jets, before I blow a gasket!

I remember when I was pregnant with my first son, and a friend asked me if I had a life verse for him.
She told me that she had a life verse for all three of her children, and each verse applied to them personally, and she would quote these verses over them, when she would pray with them at night. I asked if she would pray for God to give me a life verse for my son and God gave me Psalms 1:1-3," Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, Nor stands in the path of sinners, Nor sits in the seat of the scornful; But his delight is in the law of the Lord,and in His law he meditates day and night. He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, That brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he does shall prosper." My oldest son is what you would call an "old soul'. he can talk to anyone and act as if he has known them all of his life. He loves to read and discuss the Word of God and has integrity.
My second son's life verse is Proverbs 3:13-18,"Happy is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding;For her proceeds are better than the profits of silver, and her gain than fine gold. she is more precious than rubies, And all the things you may desire cannot compare with her. length of days is in her right hand,In her left hand riches and honor. Her ways are ways of pleasantness,And all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to those who take hold of her, And happy are all who retain her." My youngest son is very energetic and loves to explore and discover new things.He loves to sing and worship God and is
adventurous. They both love Jesus and love to serve others, but have different strengths and talents as we all do. Both of their verses refer to trees, which I find very cool, because I love trees and my favorite color is green. I love it when God does things like that. I have quoted these verses and prayed over my sons at bedtime since they were babies, and I have seen how God has instilled in them these attributes.It   also encourages me on the days when I tend to focus on my boys bad choices,  and forget that it takes time for fruit to ripen.
So now that I have shared with you our life verses, I would love to hear yours, and how God has used them in your life. That is what writing this blog is all about. Sharing our thoughts and prayers,encouraging and exhorting one another to keep fighting the good fight of faith, to not give up but to stand-fast. Hebrews 12:1-2," Therefore we also, since we ares surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight,and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God."

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

So Different, Yet So Much the Same

I love to read out loud to my two boys. I have been reading aloud to my boys since they were babies. As someone who loves to read myself, I find it can be an enjoyable and educational experience at the same time. Kill two birds with one stone, right?

Well, today I as I was reading I discovered that I was the one who was being educated more than the other two who were sitting on the floor, quietly building and stacking rocks, ( I mentioned quietly because that it is a rare experience that happens in our house, with two boys, maybe when they are sleeping, but that is another story for another time.) Anyways, As my two boys were listening intently to my words, I suddenly stopped paying attention to what I was reading. Have you had that experience where you are reading or listening to someone else speak but are not really focused on their words and your mind kind of trails off a bit? You are involved in the conversation with body language, and eye contact, but other thoughts are filling your mind at the same time. This is what exactly what happened to me. The book I was reading from today, that I am particularly fond of, is called "Ramona The Pest." I can remember reading it over and over when I was a child. I loved to read about all the crazy adventures and predicaments that Ramona would get herself into, page after page. I would find myself chuckling and giggling to myself, as I read and reread each chapter, page after page. Yet today as an adult, I found myself not laughing as much, as I was identifying with Ramona's mother, when she said, " How many times have I told you to keep your hands to yourself!"
 When you continue to say things over and over, like a broken record, it becomes less humorous, and more exasperating. When did this enjoyment of life and all it's adventures change? Why do I have such a hard time appreciating the little  interruptions that come with raising children, that could end up as a funny memory in my journal one day?
Many thoughts like these were flooding my mind as I continued to read with my mouth, but I found myself  somewhere else. Then Bingo, the answer came to me. Maybe the reason I have such a hard time is because I have focused so much on our differences as mother and sons that I have  forgotten how much we are the same. They are part of me, and they feel the same joys and hurts that I do. Though I have been commanded  by God to guide them and train them, I am no different then them. I struggle with the same sins and temptations that they do. We are told as parents that we should teach our children about love and respect, but are we loving and respecting them in return? Even now as I am writing, I am convicted by these words.
How many opportunities have I missed over the years of raising children, because I have demanded respect and obedience, but neglected to love and respect them as well? Philippians 2:1-4 says, " Therefore if there is any consolation in Christ, if any affection and mercy, fulfill my joy by being like- minded,having the same love,being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others." I am grateful for these words because it reminds me that we all as parents and as children, struggle with this statement. The word of God is not meant to bring condemnation or guilt but is meant for building up and encouraging, and for instructing. I know that God sees my heart and is sharing these words with me in love and understands that though I miss opportunities He is always faithful to create new ones. So tomorrow I will read "Ramona The Pest" to my boys with a new understanding and a deeper appreciation for the little interruptions that come with training children. I will again laugh at the crazy adventures and silly predicaments that life brings to me, chapter after chapter and page after page.